In any of the triples I've had if one cyl. is not firing you are'nt going any where at 60 mph. So It sounds to me like you may have bigger problems. Maybe a crank seal
or a piston/ring problem. there is always a chance that the carb on that side is feeding way too much fuel. maybe the main jet didnt get completely tightened or something easy like that? I hate to even say this but, the fact that it is ok on the stand under no load makes me wonder if when it is under load, if the crank bearing is worn and that allows the seal to be deformed and not seal around the shaft. This time I hope i'm wrong! Good luck.
or a piston/ring problem. there is always a chance that the carb on that side is feeding way too much fuel. maybe the main jet didnt get completely tightened or something easy like that? I hate to even say this but, the fact that it is ok on the stand under no load makes me wonder if when it is under load, if the crank bearing is worn and that allows the seal to be deformed and not seal around the shaft. This time I hope i'm wrong! Good luck.